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The operating philosophy behind every recommendation I make, and why I start with diagnosis instead of tactics.
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13 pieces on selling, ordered newest first.
The operating philosophy behind every recommendation I make, and why I start with diagnosis instead of tactics.
Buyers describe symptoms in their own words. The seller who names the cause earns the decision before price is ever discussed.
Getting someone's preferred name right is the floor of respect in a sales conversation, not the ceiling, and it signals whether you are paying attention at all.
Robert Cialdini – Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion
Most salespeople operate under the assumption that their job is persuasion. They think if they just talk long enough, push hard enough, or find the perfect string of words, they can force someone to see the world their way. Such a grind. And it rarely works.
We've been taught to mirror body language. To find common ground... To ask about the weather... To feign interest in their kids... All before pitching the product. We've been told that if we just build enough \"rapport,\" the sale will naturally follow. It's a lie. Worse, it's manipulation.
Sometimes, you're on a peak... Sales are flowing. The phone is ringing. Life is good. Then, you hit a valley.
They wait for the perfect moment. The perfect conditions. The perfect plan. They never start.
True connection isn't built on shared trivialities. It's built on a shared understanding of a problem. A situation. A need. Relevance.
It’s a necessary evil. A soul-crushing grind. But prospecting doesn’t have to be. Most salespeople are taught to ask the wrong questions.
You can’t scale hustle. You can scale systems.
They tell you to find the pain. To twist the knife. Then sell the cure. It's built on a lie. People don't buy what they need. They buy what they want. Stop interrogating. Start asking what they want. Then help them get it.
The truth behind decades of psychological deception
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